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I haven’t been on a date in over a year. Not because I can’t. Because I stopped wanting to. Dates turned into auditions where you’re judged on what you buy, what you wear, how much you tip. Everything’s scored. A simple coffee and a walk isn’t enough anymore. Then there’s the price tag she didn’t mention. She says hang out, but it means dinner, drinks, the whole production. For a working guy that’s a week of savings for one night that might go nowhere. Dating apps made it worse. A year of swiping just to feel like you don’t exist. Fake photos, matches that never turn into real meetings. I’m not competing for anyone either. While you’re getting to know me, she’s probably talking to three other guys. I just want real focus. I just want something real. No performance. No agenda. Just two people actually trying. We get into all of it in this one. Has dating started feeling pointless to you too? Drop it below. This is Outside The Order. #dating #datingapps #realtalk #modernrelationships #workingclass