Narcissistic Abuse (NA) Healing and Recovery

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Summary https://vakninsummaries.com/solastalgia-healing-shared-fantasy-narcissistic-abuse/ Transcript https://vaknintranscripts.com/2025/09/20/solastalgia-healing-shared-fantasy-narcissistic-abuse/ Idealization sets you up for failure: expectations that can never be met. Failure is critical in order to transition to devaluation and discard phases of the shared fantasy. But your failure also challenges the narcissist (co-idealization) - one of the motivations to re-idealize and hoover. Narcissist creates dystopian total environment. Solastalgia as organizing concept of subjective distress that can lead to the development of treatment modalities. Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Author Page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Sam-Vaknin/author/B000APLOFK/allbooks