Shadow Work After Dark Podcast

Welcome! I’m Jaclyn Proper, a Jungian Depth Coach, Educator, Explorer, Underworld Doula, & prior professional dominatrix. This channel is about what it means to be an explorer of shadow and self. We dive into shadow work, eroticism, spiritual psychology, kink, neurodivergence, sexuality, travel, and authentic living through the lens of my personal journey and Jungian psychology. If you’re an unconventional soul, queer, kinky, neurospicy, or simply shadow-curious, you’ll find lighthearted yet no-nonsense conversations here to help you embrace your edges, and uncover the truth of who you are.

Curated by: Jaclyn Proper (58 videos)


Currently Playing: Signs You May Be A Sexual Healer

0:00 — Introduction 1:00 — What is a Sexual Healer? 2:40 — Historical Roots 7:04 — Modern Expressions of the Sexual Healer 9:12 — Signs You're a Sexual Healer 12:08 — The Shadow Side of Being a Sexual Healer 16:55 — Workshop Announcement & Closing Do people confess their deepest sexual secrets to you... without you even asking? You might be a sexual healer. In this episode I'm breaking down what a sexual healer actually is, the signs you might carry this gift & the shadow side that shows up when we haven't done our own work yet. As someone who has done sacred sexual healing work (on both the giving & receiving side) and now works with therapists, BDSM practitioners, sex workers & coaches, I see this archetype waking up in so many people right now. We go into the history of the sexual healer, from the consecrated priestesses in the temples of Inanna, to the hetaerae of ancient Greece, to the sacred marriage rites of Sumer where the king became the vessel for the god. This role has been missing from our culture for a long time... and it wants to be filled again. In this episode: * What a sexual healer is (and why so few people can actually hold this space) * The sacred prostitute, the hetaerae & the sacred king * What sexual healing work looks like today: somatic sex education, surrogate partner therapy, sacred intimacy, tantra, BDSM & kink, bodywork & erotic coaching * The signs you might be a sexual healer * The shadow side: martyrdom, the healer wound, enmeshment, intense unintegrated flings & spiritual bypassing If your sexuality has always felt tied to your soul path, this one's for you!! 📧 Join E-Mail List → www.jaclynproper.com/subscribe ⭐️ FREE Erotic Shadow Workbook → www.jaclynproper.com/sexual-shadow-workbook 👩‍💻 Book a session with me here → jaclynproper.as.me/?appointmentType=58808943 ❤️‍🔥 Be REBORN (An Erotic Shadow Initiation) → www.jaclynproper.com/reborn 📖 Get my 20 page eBook: 8 Layers of Sexual Shadow → www.jaclynproper.com/8-layers-of-sexual-shadow ☕️ Support my work → buymeacoffee.com/jaclynproper 🌀 Transform: Learn more about working with me 1:1 → www.jaclynproper.com/work-with-me


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