Shadow Work After Dark Podcast

Welcome! I’m Jaclyn Proper, a Jungian Depth Coach, Educator, Explorer, Underworld Doula, & prior professional dominatrix. This channel is about what it means to be an explorer of shadow and self. We dive into shadow work, eroticism, spiritual psychology, kink, neurodivergence, sexuality, travel, and authentic living through the lens of my personal journey and Jungian psychology. If you’re an unconventional soul, queer, kinky, neurospicy, or simply shadow-curious, you’ll find lighthearted yet no-nonsense conversations here to help you embrace your edges, and uncover the truth of who you are.

Curated by: Jaclyn Proper (58 videos)


Currently Playing: FEAR OF BEING SEEN: Shadow Work for Intimacy, Visibility & Success

✨FREE Erotic Shadow Workbook: https://www.jaclynproper.com/sexual-shadow-workbook 👩‍💻 Book a Session: https://jaclynproper.as.me/?appointmentType=58808943 💎 Transform: Learn more about my offers → https://www.jaclynproper.com/work-with-me Do you ever sabotage what you actually want — love, success, attention, pleasure — because being seen feels terrifying? This episode dives into the fear of being seen, the shadow behind self-sabotage, and how it’s wired into your nervous system, sexuality, and self-expression. You’ll learn how fear of visibility connects to:✦ Fear of success, failure, and rejection✦ The throat chakra and difficulty speaking your truth✦ Performative vs authentic sexuality✦ Nervous system dysregulation and early trauma✦ Perfectionism, shame, and “too much / not enough” energy This conversation is for the deep feelers, the neurodivergent, the spiritually-curious, the ones who know they’re meant for more but still shrink when the spotlight hits. I share my own story — from childhood trauma to becoming a teacher of shadow integration — and practical tools to expand your capacity for visibility, intimacy, and pleasure. 🌹 Want to go deeper? If this hits you in the gut, it’s because this wound is archetypal.In REBORN, my 8-module on-demand journey into the erotic shadow, you’ll explore how fear, shame, and repression block your life-force — and learn to alchemize them into power, pleasure, and expression. ✨ Explore REBORN → https://www.jaclynproper.com/reborn 🕯 Chapters Intro: The fear of being seen My personal story with visibility traumaThe ego, persona & shadowThroat chakra + expressionVisibility in intimacy & sexHow fear of success hides inside your nervous systemPractices to expand your capacity to be seenIntegration + REBORN invitation ⚡ Keywords / Hashtags fear of being seen, shadow work, sexual shadow, erotic shadow work, Jungian psychology, nervous system healing, trauma and sexuality, chakra healing, self-expression, fear of success, inner child healing#ShadowWork #FearOfBeingSeen #SexualShadow #ThroatChakra #TraumaHealing


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