Welcome! I’m Jaclyn Proper, a Jungian Depth Coach, Educator, Explorer, Underworld Doula, & prior professional dominatrix. This channel is about what it means to be an explorer of shadow and self. We dive into shadow work, eroticism, spiritual psychology, kink, neurodivergence, sexuality, travel, and authentic living through the lens of my personal journey and Jungian psychology. If you’re an unconventional soul, queer, kinky, neurospicy, or simply shadow-curious, you’ll find lighthearted yet no-nonsense conversations here to help you embrace your edges, and uncover the truth of who you are.
Curated by: Jaclyn Proper (58 videos)
0:00 Intro & Channel Update 0:54 What Is the Erotic Imagination? 1:49 Erotic Imaginal Common Blocks 1:49 How Shame Blocks Fantasy 2:41 Porn and the Erotic Imagination 3:54 Trauma and the Erotic Imagination 7:17 Literalism: Taking Fantasy Too Literally 7:55 Relational Guilt and Fantasy 9:10 Reclaiming the Erotic Imaginal Realm 9:27 Conscious Shadow Work 10:17 Fantasy Divination 11:08 Porn Detoxing 12:12 Active Imagination & Self-Pleasure 13:06 Creative Play & Imagination 13:46 Ritual Container 14:54 Stress 16:15 SexWitch Workshop & Closing When is the last time you let your sexual imagination run completely free... no shame, no editing, no "why do I like this?" In this episode, we explore the erotic imagination through a Jungian lens: why your sexual fantasies carry the same symbolic intelligence as your dreams, what shuts this inner image-maker down, and how to reclaim it as a direct line to your unconscious and your shadow. 👉JOIN SEX WITCH: https://www.jaclynproper.com/sexwitch1 My new workshop series on erotic shadow work and sex magic. Level 1 is open to all and covers your personal erotic shadow map and how to decode your fantasies like a dream or tarot spread. In this episode: - Why sexual fantasies should be read symbolically, like dreams - How shame pushes desire into the shadow (or makes it compulsive) - How porn can outsource your erotic imagery and install scripts that aren't yours - Sexual fantasies and trauma: why the psyche reenacts pain while seeking resolution - How BDSM, kink, and aftercare can help complete a trauma loop - Literalism and relational guilt: why fantasizing doesn't mean you want to act it out - Fantasy divination: reading archetypes, power dynamics, and polarity in your desires - A 30-day porn detox (without shame or punishment) - Active imagination during self-pleasure - Ritual container practices to help your psyche feel safe enough to open - What to do if you feel like you can't fantasize at all Your erotic imagination holds potent information about your deeper desires, your fears, and the parts of you asking to be integrated. This episode is for anyone on a path of shadow work, sexual healing, or personal transformation, and for practitioners who want to understand this work for their clients or partnerships. #SexualFantasies #ShadowWork #JungianPsychology #EroticShadow #SexualHealing #DepthPsychology #SexMagic #ActiveImagination