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In this video, I talk about how chasing relationships attracts the wrong ones into your life. It builds many one sided ones that are fueled by validation. My Website: https://themutualman.com/ This video is licensed under Creative Commons Attribution. Feel free to share or reuse it—just give proper credit: Credit: The Mutual Man Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themutualman Discord: https://discord.gg/ghDB3bqbpe Twitter: @themutualman

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Men Who Control Their Lust Control Their Lives #lust #selfcontrol
Connection Focuses On Growth #connection #growth
Purpose Reduces Unhealthy Attachments #purpose #attachment
People Notice Your Behaviors Not Your Words #behavior #action
Chasing Enables Avoidants #avoidantattachment #chasing
Let Go Of People Who Avoid Things
Accountability Is The Root Of Growth #accountability #growth
Boundaries Will Always Create Discomfort #boundaries #discomfort
Walking Away Enforces Your Boundaries #boundaries #walkingaway
Shared Identity Makes Many People Protect Each Other #identity #ego
Toxic Groups View Accountability As A Threat #toxicrelationships #accountability
Chasing Is A Survival Mechanism #chasing #survival
Narcissists Love People Pleasers #narcissists #peoplepleasing
A Yes Man Is Not A Good Man #good #yesman #peoplepleasing
Chase Yourself Not Other People #chasing #selfrespect
Purpose Gives You Direction In Life
Anger Helps People Feel Powerful #anger #power
Much Of Men’s Self Improvement Focuses On External Success #externalvalidation #selfimprovement
Chasing Relationships Gets You The Wrong Ones
The Wrong People Will Devalue Your Authenticity #authenticity #validation
Loyalty Is Healthy When Based Around Values #loyalty #values
Avoidants Can Care Too Much So They Run #avoidants #security
Too Much People Pleasing Causes Anxiety #peoplepleasing #anxiety
Purpose Is Self Expression Through Behavior #purpose #selfexpression
Avoidants Lack The Capacity For Connection #avoidant #connection
People Pleasing Creates Long Term Consequences #peoplepleasing #consequences
Secure Behavior Can Lose Validation In Toxic Groups #validation #behavior
Good Intentions Does Not Justify Behavior #goodness #behavior
Men With Fragile Egos Resort To Violence #ego #violenceawareness
People Pleasers Are Transactional #peoplepleasing #transactional
Many Confuse People Pleasing For Kindness #kindness #peoplepleasing
Many Men Use Money To Cope With Insecurity #insecurity #money
The Wrong Environment Can Make You Insecure #environment #insecurity
Simps Are Usually Love Bombing #simps #simping
People Respect Resourceful Men #resourceful #respect
Purpose Is A Healthy Distraction #purpose
Avoidance Lets People Feel In Control #avoidance #control
Real Chivalry Can Piss Women Off #chivalry #growth
It’s Better To Be Disliked For Who You Are Than Liked For Who You Aren’t #validation #performance
Toxic Groups Bind Their Identity To Yours #identity #toxicrelationships
Validation Makes People Feel Morally Superior #validation #morals
In Toxic Groups Conformity Is Rewarded #conformity #toxicrelationships
Younger Women Have To Be Pickier With Men #dating #relationships
Being Validation Driven Creates A Fragile Sense Of Self #validation #insecurity
Kindness Must Be A Choice #kindness #selfrespect
People Pleasing Enables Narcissists #peoplepleasing #narcissism
Purpose Reduces The Need For Validation #purpose #validation
Narcissists Always See Themselves As Victims #narcissism #victimmentality
Toxic Groups Use Acceptance As Control #toxicrelationships #acceptance
Silence Can Become Toxic When It’s To Keep Approval #approval #toxicity
Always Ignore Breadcrumbs #breadcrumbs #attachment
Anxious People Try Fixing What They Shouldn’t #anxiousattachment
Keeping The Comfort Gains Validation #validation #comfort
What Is External Can Weigh Heavily On You #internalsecurity #emotionalhealth
Avoidance Leaves Relationships Unresolved #avoidance #relationships
Comparison Brings Out Insecurities #comparison #insecurity
The Matrix Represents Social Validation #matrix #validation
Self Respect Means Doing The Hard Work #selfrespect #hardwork
Living With Purpose Helps Fill The Void #purpose #soul
People Pleasing Creates A Lack Of Connection #peoplepleasing #connection
Being Overcorrected Growing Up Can Make Validation Feel Weird #parenting #selfworth
Your Success Can Make Some People Feel Like Failures #success #ego
Some People Will Never Want To See You As An Equal #ego
Unhealthy Pride Attaches What Is External To Identity #pride #identity
Your Existence Can Piss People Off #existence #ego
Toxic Relationships Create Hard To Break Attachments #attachment #barefootpartner
Self Respect Is A Form Of Love #selfrespect #love
Habits Attach To Your Identity #habits #identity
Silence Can Be A Form Of Control #silence #control
Self Respect Will Cost You A Lot Of Relationships (It's Great!)
People Want You To Succeed Until It Makes Them Feel Small #success #insecurity
Low Vibrational People Operate From Emotion #emotion #lowvibration
Kindness Is Not Transactional #kindness #transaction
Some People Experience Boundaries As Rejection #boundaries #rejection
You Must Be The Devil In Some People’s Lives #devil #respect
Self Respect Pisses Many People Off #selfrespect #boundaries
Both People Are The Prize #prize #healthylove
Anxious People Feel The Need To Fix Things They Shouldn’t #anxiousness #insecurity
Broken Boundaries Create Resentment #boundaries #resentment
Transactional Groups Will Not Give You Real Belonging
You Can’t Fix An Avoidant #avoidant #anxious
No Contact Helps Reduce Attachment #nocontact #attachment
Walking Away Gives People Space To Take Accountability #accountability #walkingaway
Egotistical People Want You To Please Them #ego #peoplepleasing
People Trust Groups Before Individuals #groupdynamics #ego
“Don’t Snitch” Is Gang Mentality #gang #snitching
Truth Tellers Are Always Hated #truth #truthtellers
Only The Crowd Reinforces Hierarchies #hierarchy #groupthink
Groups Diffuse Responsibility Until It’s Too Late #groupdynamics #responsibility
Attention Can Work Against Connection #attention #connection
Groups That Refuse To Grow Collapse #groupdynamics #growth
Holding Onto An Identity Can Make You Insecure #identity #insecurity
Avoiding Accountability Hurts Your Image More #accountability #avoidance
True Accountability Will Create A Lot Of Avoidance #accountability #avoidance
Your Growth Will Make People Insecure #growth #insecurity
Everyone Has Different Mental Hierarchies #hierarchy #ego
Men Simp For Other Men Too #simping #validation
Logically A Submissive Man Sounds Nice But Emotionally It Isn’t #submission #relationships
One Sided Relationships Break Apart During Healthy Conflict #relationships #conflict
The More You Help People The More They Will Hate You #hate #ego