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How to Get Over Approach Anxiety (Beckster Method) Christmas bootcamo coming up! Check out www.theBecksterlifestyle.com Approach anxiety is normal. Every guy feels it. I felt it. Mystery felt it. Even the naturals feel it. The difference is simple. They take action before the fear catches up. That is the whole trick. Here is how you beat it. One. The three second rule If you see someone you want to talk to, move within three seconds. Do not look for signals. Do not wait for the perfect moment. Waiting is what builds the fear. Action kills it. Two. Stop aiming for perfection You are not trying to impress her. You are only trying to start a conversation. That is it. Lower the pressure and the fear drops. Three. Breathe out before you go in A slow breath out relaxes your nervous system. Your voice becomes calmer and your body language smoother. One breath changes everything. Four. Use a default opener Have one line ready at all times. Something simple you can say without thinking. When you remove the decision making, you remove the hesitation. Five. Treat every approach like practice If you remove the outcome and focus on the process, your anxiety drops and your skill rises. I have taught thousands of men and this mindset shift changes everything. Six. Remember this Rejection does not hurt. Hesitation hurts. The moment you move, you win. The moment you open, your fear dies. Approach anxiety is only beaten by doing the thing you are scared of. Do it enough times and it stops being fear and becomes excitement. This is how you become unstoppable in social situations. #BecksterLifestyle #AttractionUnleashed #ApproachAnxiety #SupernaturalGame #DatingCoach #SocialDynamics #ConfidenceTraining #CharmAndCharisma #PickUpSkills #NightGame #DayGame #ConversationSkills #MysteryMethod #TheLastPickupArtists #BecksterMethod