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Jeffrey's flirting with a girl, but there's so many people around. He'll never be able to escalate with her now. He needs to take her somewhere alone. But how can he do that? What could he say? If only there was someone who could help Jeffrey. Adonis. Adonis sends Jeffree a text message. It's the secret of making her want to be alone with you. Secret number one, appeal to her emotions, not to logic. Secret number two, you only need to invite her to come somewhere basic. You don't have to go over the top. And secret number three, you need certainty and conviction. You don't ask her to come with you. You tell her. You say, "We're going to go on a walk. Come on." Thank you for sharing your secrets with us, Adonis. We'll make sure to scroll down below the video and click on the link and buy your courses. [Laughter] Step number one, appeal to her emotions, not her logic. So, let's say you're hanging out with a girl and it's in a bit more of a public setting. Maybe you're around other people, you're in the gym, whatever. Or you're on a date and you want to get alone with her so you can escalate more. If you try and appeal to logic, like, oh yeah, there's a good reason why we need to go and, you know, go over and do that thing. It's kind of like a little virgin kind of behavior. You don't need a logical reason for you and her to be alone. You just need an emotional reason. and you need to convince her emotions that she wants to basically be more intimate with you. So if like visualize yourself in like a party for example, nightclub, whatever, and you're surrounded by everyone, maybe you've kissed, maybe you've not, but you want to escalate things further, you want to be alone. Giving her like a really logical reason as to why we need to go somewhere better than this, whatever. It'll often just make her like go into her rational mode and she'll kind of disagree with you and say, "No, I'm kind of having fun here." What you need to do is just basically turn her on. You don't need to have a logical reason to take her off. You just need to have a emotional spike inside of her where she's turned on and then she's actually willing to like go somewhere in private with you because she's not thinking that that thing that you're going to do together is actually like, you know, the thing you're saying it is, but it's more just like an excuse for you guys to be alone and to basically end up [ __ ] So, all that to say, spike her emotions, turn her on, escalate. I just recorded a video about like how to escalate without making it feel awkward. So maybe it's on my channel already. You can go and have a look. Escalate. Kiss. When you're kissing, you're making out. Put your hand on her throat like this. You know, be sexual. Talk about some sexual things. Flirt, sexual tension, sticky eyes, you know, all these random things that you can do that like turn her on, be attractive in the first place. And then appeal to her emotions with a smile on your face. You're going to say something which will she it's basically insinuating what you're going to do. That's the way to to start this process. You don't want to do it trying to really convince her logically that we need to go to that kind of place whatever you know we need to go upstairs whatever. It's more like this basic thing and that's probably the step the second step is a basic plan is all that you need like a basic sort of idea for her to come with. So basically let's say we've turned her on then we just ask we tell her to basically come join us for something which is just basic. We don't need to have this elaborate kind of reason to be alone. We just say to her like, "Oh, I'm going upstairs. Come with me. I'm going that way. Come with me. I'm going to go over there. Come with me." It's such a basic plan. You're not trying to convince her on the plan. You've convinced her on you. You're the sexy guy that she's into and she's, you know, she's kind of excited to be around. She's funny. She's staring up into you and whatever. You've turned her on. And then you say the most basic thing and you just tell her to come with you. It's super simple. But the the most important step of this step three is certainty. Certainty. You don't ask her, "Hey, do you want to go?" And you're all unsure and you feel a bit shy, whatever. You assume she wants to go and be alone with you. So, you literally like basically stand up, stick your hand out, and you say, "We're going to X. Come on, we're going to go upstairs. Come on, we're going to go that way. Come on, we're going to go for a walk." That's huge. Look, imagine step like the virgin one is you saying to the girl, "Oh, do you want to come with me to go o over there?" And she's like, "Uh, no, not really." But the version of you that says, "Come on, we're going to go over there." It makes her so much easy to follow you. I remember in um I must have been like 19 years old and I went on a night out with like my old high school friends and we we walked into this club and walking out of the club she was like about to go smoke outside was a girl that I had been speaking to on Instagram and she was fit as well. We recognized each other and we were like oh like oh yeah we've been talking a little bit and I was in like the sexy like confident mode and I was like don't worry okay I'll message you later on. I'll come find you. So I go have fun with my friends. I'm not like being needy for her or whatever. Gets to like 2:00 a.m. and I text her and I say, "Where are you?" And she's like outside of the same club. So, I go back there. She's sat down smoking with her friends and she's with like a big group. We're talking like six guys, three, four, five girls or something. They're all sat down talking. So, I'm with one of my friends and I just kind of sit next to her, sit down, we flirt for a bit and then that's when I say, "Okay, come here." And I go in for the kiss. I start like making out with her. And this is when I just did one of the [ __ ] ballsiest moves that I had done in my life so far. After we kissed, I literally stood up, looked into her eyes, and said, "Come on, we're going to go for a walk." She took my hand. We walked away from her group. I could hear like, you know, they were like kind of talking about us. Walked away from her group. We walked through the cities, you know, it's like the the streets of the cities like 3:00 a.m. looking for somewhere private and I [ __ ] the [ __ ] out of her like in um like behind like a [ __ ] store. At first, at first we actually went to this car park, which I swear to God, I don't know if I'm remembering this right, but I swear to God, we got to this car park where this guy was like walking his dog at like [ __ ] 2:00 a.m. And so we walked past him and we went to right to the corner of this car park where I told her, "Get on your knees." And she's starting me off. And then um and then just as I'm about to [ __ ] her, I kind of like looked over and the guy who was walking his dog was like painfully close to us, even though it was like a dead end. So he was coming to see like what we were doing like behind this car. so I could kind of stand up and pretend we're like a couple having an argument or something and we walk away. We're like laughing about it. And then we went behind this [ __ ] store and I just basically [ __ ] the [ __ ] out of her. And um then I walked her back to like the friendship group and it was like, you know, it's like a hype story that I got to have. She text me the next day and she texts me saying like, "Oh my god, I can't believe that happened." And I I I remember I was only 19, but I remember I screenshotted it and I felt like a [ __ ] G. And my my friend who was with me, he was in like [ __ ] disbelief of what just happened. It was almost like I destroyed his reality of like you can meet a girl and just end up [ __ ] her like out in public just like that. And I think all that came down to like the the ability like the conviction. If I said to her like, you know, sat down like, "Oh, what are you doing now? Do you want to come and and do you want to come and like, you know, like let's go in [ __ ] public?" She would have said, "What the fuck?" But all I said was a smooth way. I stood up first. So, I showed a bit of momentum, which is a high-risisk, high reward kind of strategy. Stuck my hand out and said, "Come on, we're going for a walk." That you see how like easy that makes it for her to follow me compared to me saying like, "Do you want to do you want to go for a walk?" And I'm asking almost like her permission. I'm like saying to her like, "Do you want to compared to no, we're going already." So, that conviction, I think, is the reason why that that moment happened for me. You want to get alone with this girl? You've got to have the conviction of just like some basic plan. We're going for a walk. Let's say you're in a party. Come on, we're going to go upstairs. We're going to go to the bathroom. Come on, we're going to go over there. We're going to go do this. We're going to do this. Just say that to her. You're like just it will probably like double like your success rate when instead of asking the girl, "Do you want to come with me?" you just say to her, "We're going to." They they girls really like it when a guy like leads and takes charge like that. They [ __ ] love it. They they talk about this [ __ ] online all the time. And so that's what I would be leaning into. If you're in this specific situation where you've got like a girl next to you, but you're in public and you don't know how to get her, you know, alone. Just the biggest thing is have the conviction and just say, "Fuck it." Like you've already been, you know, appealing to her logic. She's already kind of turned on. You then just need the balls to just [ __ ] go and do some basic plan. Nothing like elaborate. Just [ __ ] "Oh yeah, we're going to go over there. We're going to go smoke outside. We're going to go upstairs. We're going to go over there. We're going to go for a walk. We're going to go to the store." Whatever. and you bring her somewhere private where then you can escalate in the way that you both want. So, I guess there's two big parts of this is you've got to turn her on in the first place cuz the doing this when like she's not turned on is not really maybe going to lead to anything. So, you turn her on, you're flirting, you're holding great eye contact, you're speaking in like this sort of sexy mo voice and you know, you're kind of just like exciting her sexually. Then you say to her, "Come on, we're going to go for a walk. We're going to go upstairs. We're going to do this thing." Advice like this can save you from so many of those instances where you've got a girl who's kind of into you who you could end up smashing and then you don't because you you like just bottled it. You didn't know this specific thing you could have said to kind you didn't know like you could actually say to a girl like come on we're going to go and do this and um imagine how much you'd miss out because of that. Imagine like there's a girl who's who could have been your girlfriend and you just nothing happens because you just didn't have the balls or the awareness to know that you can literally say to a girl like come on come with me we're going to go over and do that. That's why I have this program, top link in the description, where I literally have like tons of little bits of advice like this where guys who who want to get girls who want to level up in their self-improvements, who want to get fit, who want to like, you know, become more attractive men, you join and you get so much more of my education, like the type of advice that really really [ __ ] works. Everyone else is using like [ __ ] chat GBT advice. It's all [ __ ] And I'm the one guy who's literally telling you these specific things you can implement today and you'll think, "Holy [ __ ] that one video from Hamza that I watched before my date really [ __ ] worked." And so this top link in the description is a place where you get like a hundred times more than what you get from my YouTube channel. So go and join that. Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it. Mhm.