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Looking for more info mentioned in this video? My social media? How to support this channel? Just click "show more" below! ヽ(´･ω･`)､ ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ ▼▼▼ SUPPORT AND SUBSCRIBE ▼▼▼ Subscribe to my channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/EvieLupine My Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/EvieLupine & For 1:1 Chats, Advice & Video Calls: https://www.patreon.com/evielupine2 Twitter: @EvieLupine Watch me LIVE on Twitch! https://www.twitch.tv/evielupine Looking to meet kinky people? Try Feeld*: feeld.pxf.io/9gLNnQ Want Even MORE BDSM Education? Check Out Dom Sub Living*: https://evielupine--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/dst/ https://evielupine--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/dst/61c68e5871c50/ FREE resource Library: https://evielupine--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/dst/61c68e8071c52/ My BDSM Merch Store: https://teespring.com/stores/evie-lupine Business Inquiries ONLY: lupineventide@gmail.com [DO NOT SEND YOUR PERSONAL QUESTIONS HERE] ▼▼▼ RELATED VIDEOS ▼▼▼ How BDSM Has Changed: https://youtu.be/S7xjKSfc8Zw What Happened to My Collar: https://youtu.be/euV0Fcz8_XQ Dom Disillusionment Syndrome: https://youtu.be/t0Y3jMtw_Bs Dating App Advice for Meeting Kinky People: https://youtu.be/i36kHbhKMBc ▼▼▼ VIDEO INFORMATION ▼▼▼ FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY. All of my videos are intended to provide safety information for adults that choose to engage in these activities as well as combat stereotypes and misinformation. In addition these videos may contain educational commentary on queer issues, pop culture, and news items. No portion of my content is meant to be used for gratification, nor is it intentionally salacious. In this video, we'll be going over the top mistakes new submissives make when entering the BDSM community. If you're new, or you have a partner who is, take heed of this list so you can avoid making the same errors so many of us have! 00:00 - introduction 01:24 - not understanding fantasy vs. reality 05:11 - believing you have to be just one thing 08:19 - putting on an act 11:38 - assuming experience means safety 15:50 - believing no limits makes you more desirable 18:20 - being afraid to safeword 21:30 - believing submission will fix your life 25:13 - putting too much pressure on Doms 28:34 - believing Doms are superhuman 31:37 - treating the collar as the goal 35:10 - final thoughts ▼▼▼ EVERYTHING ELSE ▼▼▼ Art by: @animositi on Instagram Credits/Attribution (Music): Artist: Audionautix Website: http://audionautix.com/ Track: Transportation Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/) All content used falls within fair use guidelines for education and commentary purposes. * = affiliate link ▼▼▼ P.O BOX ▼▼▼ Evie Lupine 4233 SE 182nd Ave # 357 Gresham, OR 97030