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♡ manifesting!! YOU HAVE ZERO FUCKS TO GIVE. None. You genuinely do not care who left, who rejected you, who ignored you, who betrayed you, who talked shit about you, who underestimated you, who replaced you, who chose someone else, who stopped talking to you, who did not appreciate you, who hurt you, who wasted your time, or who thought they could treat you however they wanted. You are completely detached. You do not chase. You do not need anyone to regret losing you. Your mindset is literally: THEY ALL WANT ME. You never act like one person is your only option because you KNOW they are not. You do not put anyone on a pedestal. Nobody's attention is worth more than your self respect. Nobody is so attractive, successful, popular, interesting, or special that you would humiliate yourself for them. YOU remain the prize. YOU DO NOT WANT ANYONE WHO HURT YOU BACK. You would NEVER take back someone who disrespected you. You would NEVER go back to someone who betrayed you. You do not romanticize people who hurt you. You do not miss the version of them you invented. You do not check whether they regret it. You do not care whether they are dating someone else. You do not care whether they are miserable without you. You do not care whether they come crawling back. They can regret losing you for the rest of their fucking life and you still do not want them. You are not available to everyone just because they suddenly want you. You stop caring about people who do not value you. Completely. The second someone shows you they do not appreciate you, your interest disappears. You can cut someone off and never look back. You can leave a relationship without begging for one more chance. You can end a friendship without writing an essay explaining yourself. You are completely detached from being chosen. YOU choose. You have the highest self esteem imaginable. Nothing anyone says can lower your self esteem because you simply do not value their opinion that highly. Someone dislikes you or does not want you? Okay. Someone leaves? Okay. Someone chooses someone else? Their loss. You genuinely move on. You know exactly what you bring to the table and you know there are always people who would kill for the opportunity to have you. YOU REALIZE IT IS THEIR LOSS IMMEDIATELY. Your past relationships have absolutely no emotional power over you anymore. You are not attached to exes, crushes, former friends. The past is the past and you are completely finished with it. You simply withdraw your energy and move on. Your emotions do not control your behavior. You can miss someone without contacting them. You can be disappointed without begging. You can be hurt without going back. You can remember someone and STILL not want them. You do not make decisions from loneliness, nostalgia, jealousy, anger or desperation. You do not need revenge because your detachment and ability to move on is the revenge. You do not waste your life trying to make someone regret hurting you. They can try to provoke you, talk about you, shade you, make you jealous... They want a reaction? They get absolutely fucking nothing. You do not react impulsively, send emotional paragraphs, make desperate posts or stalk them. You do not give people the satisfaction of knowing they affected you. They wonder about you, think about you, look for you, want your attention, your approval. But YOU decide who gets access to you. Nobody can convince you to accept crumbs. You have ZERO tolerance for disrespect. One serious red flag and you're done. You do not wait hoping someone will become better. You do not tolerate manipulation, dishonesty, being taken for granted and inconsistent treatment. You do not tolerate people who only value you when they are afraid of losing you. Nobody can make you forget your standards. You would rather lose them than lose your dignity. You are impossible to manipulate. Someone gives you attention or withdraws attention? Ok. Someone love bombs you and then becomes distant? Ok. Someone suddenly comes back? You do not automatically let them back in. Someone acts jealous? Someone tries to make you prove yourself? Absolutely not. You cannot be controlled through fear of abandonment because you dgaf. You do not need external validation because your internal validation is massive. ───♡────────────── calm: https://youtu.be/V0ldfBkCW8g ───♡────────────── paid requests: https://www.instagram.com/guobastore?... ───♡────────────── patreon shop: https://www.patreon.com/guoba?utm_cam... ───♡────────────── DISCLAIMER: my subliminals are NOT a substitute for professional care; they are only for entertainment purposes. If you have any personal concerns, seek appropriate assistance from qualified professionals. My videos do not claim to replace or replicate the benefits of professional care, and I don't guarantee, promote, or promise anything. My content is original, with affirmations under the audible sound.